Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Being a Father

Well, it has been a little over 10 weeks into my journey as a father. Josiah is amazing. He really is a good baby. I think God knew we wouldn't be able to handle a crazy baby. He is beautiful. He looks like his Momma, thank goodness.
The reality of him being here is starting to set in. One of the biggest things that God has been teaching me is about the Father's love. I would do anything for Josiah. He has done nothing to earn my love except come into this earth. In fact, I KNOW that there will be many times in the future that he will disobey me, disrespect me, talk back to me and even call me names. But...I still love him. I still will do anything for him. That doesn't matter. He could wish that he was born to different parents, but I still love him.
So, if my imperfect love can do that, how much more does God our Father love us.

Matthew 7:11

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Josiah is Here!


Well, like most expectations, ours have been shattered. Our baby, Josiah, came about 3 weeks early. He weighed 5 lbs 11oz. He was 18 1/2 inches.
He is absolutely beautiful.

We spent 6 days and 5 nights in the hospital. Two of those days were before his birth. Aimee was having some issues.

Parenthood is strange. It is still surreal. Reality has not set in. I am holding him right now and it is way too early for a youth pastor to be awake. Still, the reality has not set in.

Well, here he is:

Sunday, August 9, 2009

A New House!

Well Summer is coming to a close today. School starts tomorrow and life will slow down a little bit until the end of October when Mr. Josiah gets here. Last week, we moved into our new house in Summerlin. We love it. We are so thankful to God for what He has given us. It doesn't quite feel like home yet, but it will get there.
We had a good Summer over all. From all the camps and events over the Summer, God has been good. For the next few weeks and months, we will see how people allow God to work in their lives even when school is in.
Hopefully, I will be able to post on here a little more now that life is slowing down a little bit.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

It's All in the Family

So I am in Kansas City, Missouri. I am here with about 85 people who claim me as family. There are 42 kids and 43 adults. The weather has been pretty good. Saturday has been a little cooler than expected. It has been a great time to relax and even meet family that I don't remember or I haven't seen in years. There are also kids here that were not even alive the last time I saw their family.
One of my cousins works for Christ In Youth (CIY). We had a great discussion today about leaders and small groups. He is writing a book to help train volunteer leaders. It was a good time. It's cool to see how people are similar even though they live hundred of miles away. We work for different denominations but we serve the same God.

The one thing I love about my family, even though we don't see them often, is our love for God and family dynamics. Most families these days have some issues:

1. They don't even want to meet together for a family reunion.
2. God is not the center of most of their lives, so they are missing a common bond.
3. Our families are willing to help each other out no matter what the situation.

Even though we don't keep up with most of our family during the year (except through Facebook), our love for family and our Savior makes coming together a great time.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

It's been a while...

Sorry that I haven't posted here in awhile. Things have been really busy and somethings are getting ready to change. If your only connection to me is this blog, you might want to know that Aimee and I are expecting a little boy in November. His name is Josiah. We don't have a middle name yet, still working on that.
Hopefully this weekend, we will have a contract on our house. We are looking at building our next house. We have a really good deal in the process.
Things have been pretty busy at church. We leave for Impact in a week. Another team in going to Belize two weeks after that. Then, we have our normal youth camp in July. In the middle of all that, we have a family reunion to attend.
Today, Jeff and I started a new thing where we take 1 day a month and turn our cell phones off and just spend time with God and his Word. It didn't really go as planned. I ended up in a meeting that I forgot was already planned. I was able to spend most of the afternoon in quiet and reading.
I read through the book of Nehemiah. It is the book we are using at Impact. I really just wanted God to speak through it without the curriculum. The character and integrity that Nehemiah has was astounding. He would not let anyone or anything stray him from doing God's work. There was power, position and wealth all at his finger tips, yet he chose to do the right thing. I hope to continue to become that kind of man. God-willing.

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Turning 30

So I turned 30 yesterday. It was kind of weird and kind of normal. The day was pretty normal. It was Black Friday, so Aimee and I went by the mall but I thought the "sales" were terrible. She bought a shirt, but that was it. Oh yeah, I bought myself a new truck for the first time. I have been driving the same truck since high school. I really like the truck, but I don't know if I will like the payments.

But back to turning 30.

First, I don't feel 30 at all. Working with middle school students keeps you young. I always feel like people are older than me. I kind of want to be like those guys who try to look at their lives from a different perspective and see if they are where they want to be. I have tried to do that and it just seems stupid. I hope I am where God wants me to be. I have a great wife, family and job. My friends are amazing. I really don't feel like anything is missing. Sure I have troubles and issues like everyone else, but I am pretty satisfied with where God has me. I hope the next 30 years are as much fun as the first 30 have been.

Thank you to all of you who have been a part it so far.

Monday, October 6, 2008

China Review

In case you didn’t know, I had the opportunity to travel to China from September 9 – 21. It was my first experience out of our country and an experience that I will never forget. I want to start off this note by stating some of the obvious things and then get to what I thought my Father was teaching me.
First, there are people EVERYWHERE! China has an estimated 1 billion people living in the country. That’s almost 3 times the amount of people we have in the States. I can understand where the value of human life has decreased over there. I don’t agree with it, but can understand it. In the city that we were in, there were about 10 million people. At least 5 million people ride a scooter. Todd would fit right in with all the Chinese. One thing I would never do over there is drive. People in China do not know how to drive. Signals and lines on the road mean absolutely nothing. I asked our connection over there about getting a license and he said that it is hard to get a license and if you can’t pass the test, you can just pay for it! Our bus driver used his horn more in the 2 weeks than I have in my entire life.
Second, the food is terrible. Granted, this is coming from someone who is already a picky eater, but I tried some things are they were for the most part, terrible. In my photo albums on Facebook, you can see what I am talking about. From the fish head and tail still attached to actual chicken feet being in the soup, I hit my gag reflex several times on this trip. My friend Wayne and I lived on crackers and water for a long period of time. There were several things that I did enjoy, like dragon fruit, fried rice (not American style) and duck. We did find a McDonalds, KFC, and Pizza Hut over there and we lived off those things for the last couple of days. Whatever weight I lost in the first week, I gained back by the time we left.
Third, the beds were hard a rock. They do not know what a comforter is. We stayed in the 3 different hotels while we were over there and all of them had beds that were hard. The bathrooms were not something to be desired as well. While the hotels had western style bathrooms (even though you couldn’t put used toilet paper in the toilet), most bathrooms out it public were what we called ‘Squatty Potty’s.’ Basically, just a hole in the ground without plumbing. They were some the nastiest things I have ever smelled.
On to the things I was taught. The verse that was stuck in my head while we traveled was, “You are his workmanship, created in Him, to DO good works which He has prepared in advance for you to do.” I was ready to get to work while I was over there. We were visiting some cities that were devastated by the earthquake on May 12, 2008. That date is being memorialized like our 9-11. Our plans were changed often on this trip. It came to be very annoying while we were there. The villages and cities that we did visit were absolutely devastated. There were several schools that collapsed and many of the victims of this disaster where children. While we were not able to do all the things we wanted, we were able to give hope and encouragement to many people that we came into contact with. Whether they were organizations that were helping with disaster, to college students, to the village people who were seeing ‘white faces’ for the first time in their lives. These organizations were starting to get discouraged because of the lack of volunteer help and so we could encourage them. We meet people who lived in portable housing that was basically a bunch of one-room homes for 40,000 people.
The main thing that I walked away with was an awareness of things much bigger than me. It was like the time I went to the Grand Canyon as a child. Our Father has great plans for China, bigger than I have ever imagined and we need to keep them in our thoughts.